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New year..whats in store? | December 31, 2008

At this time of year people generally reflect on the past and whats instore for the future.I am no exception to that as I said in an early post I re-read an old post on my 20 six blog which was a me me,and a few things that I wanted to do and wanted to change.

want to do: Hot air balloon ride

:see robin achieve simple things that other children can,ie walk without falling,ride bike,write name
:drop barriers regarding men and trust men.
:do more charity work,with charity I co founded

Hot air balloon ride will be taking place in february,I was quite poorly last year and had serious health scare a friend who knew I wanted to go in a hot air balloon for ride before I died and brought me a champagne balloon flight.See robin achieve things other children take for granted,he has done amazing and I have seen him achieve all these and more.
Drop barriers and trust men,did drop them and trust a man then got hurt badly as many of you may remember from 20 six, so they are up again more firmly than ever and cant see them being dropped in forseeable future.so that will have to be a work in progress.
Do more charity work I set up a support group for microcephaly and held a national awareness day on 30th september and had to co-ordinate all over uk,and had to do press release and numerous press interviews,nick owen OBE was very helpful really lovely guy,was really weird time corresponding with Downing street and her majesty the queen..it went well with thousands of people wearing red,portsmouth bus company wore red for the day so did the local schools lovely karen did work that part uk for us with my photo out of paper nearly whole page spread.Tracey did london area and I did staffordshire and surrounding area and was invited to give a talk,I am not a very good public speaker and it clashed with Isaacs CT scan so I allocated it someone else.

so looking back I have achieved many things and what have I learnt on the journey?? not to stress about things I have no control over,ie Isaacs illness if drs have problems controling it then I’m not alone not knowing what to do for best and peoples opinions of me who,think because i’m nice they can take advantage of me.I’ve learnt that people will make mistakes and apportion blame without looking inside themselves and not to take it personally,and that even if you have good intentions to help someone they may not see your intentions until they look inside themselves.I’ve learnt that what makes you happy is counting your blessings not your money.(so if your not happy change it,if your job not giving satisfaction get new one,if relationship is making you unhappy,leave it for both sakes if you have a dream go for it..lifes not about how many breaths you take,it’s about what takes your breath away,people come and go in your life friends,partners,colleuges the only person who will always be with you is yourself,so be true to yourself and be happy)

I have a roof over my head that has everything I need in it and all paid for so have no debts apart from the normal rent,council tax amenities etc..I have a small amount of savings for an emergency.I’m not a high maintainence girl as long as my children have needs met I’m happy.I have happy well brought up children who I’m very proud of and am always being complimented on how polite and that they are a credit to me.

so what resolutions do I make and want to change for 2009.

Apart from having someone to share my things with and laugh and love with and spoil rotten as Im incredible romantic (but you can be lonelier in an unhappy relationship than being single and thats worse) actually I wouldn’t change a thing,I like myself I’m a good person with good intentions and a good heart.
It’s took me a while to learn to love myself but I do.

As I had to restart blogging due to 20 six changes and a broken pc I’ve missed lots of friends birthdays and christmas presents also,so I’m giving new years presents
So if my friends give me their address
I will post out your gifts that I’ve tried to choose to suit your personalities.

Happy new year
Love Fraggle xx

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9 Comments »

  1. Sweetie, you are a romantic 🙂 And I wish you the very best in relationships. I enjoyed hearing about your work on the national awareness day. Perhaps you can do a post about how that all came together. Happy new year, my friend.

    Comment by nikkipolani — January 1, 2009 @ 1:16 am

  2. Hi Fraggle.
    Good luck with your balloon flying, good fun and very enjoyable.
    Well done for the charity work. [Would that be for the NINDS?.] I agree with nikkiplani you are lovely romantic, ‘Mr Right’ – your ‘Man in Shining Armour riding on his Charger’ will arrive one day. A post on your charity work sounds a good idea especially getting to know all those famous people.

    Have a Happy New Year with Good Health and Happiness.
    Mick – X

    Comment by Mick — January 1, 2009 @ 8:43 am

  3. My that’s a reflective post! I hope that you enjoy your hot air balloon flight. Here’s an entry I did about one
    http://flightplot.wordpress.com/2007/12/20/the-phantom/
    You should be as proud of your charity work and your children as you are! You clearly have the right perspective on life’s true values.
    Take care and all the very best for 2009! xx

    Comment by Flighty — January 1, 2009 @ 9:08 am

  4. Nikki: Thanks I am hoplessly or should I say hopefuly romantic.
    good idea I will do a post on it,Robin has been in various newspapers this year local and national hes a little celebrity.xx

    Comment by meeeeeeeeeee — January 1, 2009 @ 10:41 am

  5. mick my lovely friend,my knight is probably stuck cutting down all those overgrown bushes and shrubs so its probably taking a while to find me 🙂

    money raised went to bibic as there is no charity for microcephaly as is rare and people have n’t heard of it,and bibic do give help to children with this disability.
    trying to get people to understand an illness or disability that they have never heard of and raise awareness was no mean feat.

    Comment by meeeeeeeeeee — January 1, 2009 @ 10:55 am

  6. flighty: Thanks I am very proud,when started people said one person cant make a difference but I have in a small way and I’m quite pleased with my achievements.
    I will enjoy ride thanks and will post after have done it xx

    Comment by meeeeeeeeeee — January 1, 2009 @ 11:02 am

  7. http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article1061640.ece
    link if works of Robin and myself in sun newspaper .

    Comment by meeeeeeeeeee — January 1, 2009 @ 1:50 pm

  8. I hope 2009 brings you your every wish!
    Happy New Year!

    Comment by Jason — January 1, 2009 @ 10:05 pm

  9. Jason;Thank you ,Happy new year x

    Comment by meeeeeeeeeee — January 2, 2009 @ 12:13 pm


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